Ever watched the Beverly Hillbillies on TVLAND? Jethro, the
clueless country boy, always wants to have a swinging bachelor pad. He believes
that includes a round bed and whole panel of buttons that dim lights, close
curtains, and turn on music. That’s pretty much what the teenage boy thinks a
bachelor pad is. The real question is what do grown women want to see in a
man’s apartment?
My sweetie confided before I came over to his apartment for
the first time that he remade it according to the advice featured on urban
mogul life web site. In the article, it mentioned that a woman liked to
check out your bathroom. Your bathroom should be clean, color coordinated with
a masculine theme. You should also have high end grooming items, but not too
many displayed. It should include a decorative basket with fluffy towels, hip
reading material, and extra toilet paper.
Yes, women check out the bathroom. We do appreciate the easily
accessible toilet paper and color coordination. What do we do in the bathroom
besides the obvious? We check the bathroom for signs of another woman. Are
there toiletries in the tub that clearly go with another woman? If a man has
prescription drugs lined up on his counter, then they will be looked at. A
woman might regard a man on several prescriptions has not a good bet. I did
notice the grooming items, which impressed me in the fact that he took care of
himself. We, women, like this because then he won’t tease us for our high end
grooming products.
I checked out several other websites to see what makes an
apartment appealing to a woman, at least from a man’s point of view. Not all of
them agree, but they did agree on cleanliness. Women do not always expect a man’s abode to be
perfect, but they do expect some level of orderliness. Even if you aren’t the
neatest person in the world, a woman expects some effort made before she
arrives. I’ve been invited to homes where there are dirty dishes, shoes piled by
the door, baskets of unfolded laundry strewn around. First of all, it told me
the man didn’t care enough to even try to impress me. I reciprocated by not
caring enough to date him again. So cleanliness does matter, despite your date
saying it doesn’t matter.
It also allows her the chance to see your own individuality.
This is murky, because the different sites are advising what to do to
demonstrate your identity. Vanity
Fair advises to put out intelligent books that you may have just stop
reading and placed on the coffee table. If you have a camera, you should bop
out to take several black and white photos, have them matted and framed, and
artistically arranged on your wall before your date comes over. That’s a tall
order. A woman is looking for
information about you. Instead of reading book titles, I read the names of the
various videos my guy had. Trust me, there were no romantic comedies, and I was
okay with that.
Urban Mogul advises the man to put up subtly sexual art.
Really… that smacks of Jethro Bodine. Men aren’t known for being subtle when it
comes to sex. I think you’d actually be better off with the black and white
photographs. The provocative art suggests you are too much a player. Maybe the
woman doesn’t want a player and heads for the hills if she thinks you’re one.
Urban Mogul also advises you to have something to do at your
home such as board games and videos. Good idea. Once dinner is over there needs
to be a way to prolong the date. Games often allow us to display our real
personality as opposed to company behavior. I would give this advice two thumbs
up since it would put both people at their ease.
Women are nosey. It has served us well in the past; so we
will snoop in the kitchen. Bachelor fridges are known for their emptiness. A normal one houses condiments, old takeout,
and beer. Vanity Fair encourages the man
to stock it with champagne and eggs, an unlikely combination. Reasoning is all
women like champagne, and this will impress them. The women will see the eggs assume the man
can cook, and expect breakfast if she stays over.
Urban Mogul instead promotes ice cream. Two types of gourmet
ice cream, so the man has a decent chance of having something the woman might
like. I think ice cream is a better bet unless you’re dating a diabetic or a
lactose intolerant woman. A man should
already know this before inviting a woman over. Have lots of non-alcoholic
drinks for her to choose from. Another good choice in my opinion because if a
man only has alcoholic drinks then it is assumed he wants the woman drunk.
Make sure the woman has a comfortable place to sit like a
big comfy couch with lots of throw pillows. This sounds like the guy has to start
all over from ground zero. You want to avoid leather couches. Men think these
are masculine, but women wear clothes that show a lot of leg and skin. Skin
sticks to leather, pleather, and vinyl. It is no fun peeling skin off the
furniture, especially while you are currently wearing it.
So overall, what do men really need to do to impress the
girl? Clean like a maniac. Rid your apartment of anything left behind from an
old girlfriend or ex-wife. Think twice about anything an old flame bought you.
Another woman recognizes a female chosen bedspread, shower curtain, etc., and
may not want to be anywhere near it. Food in the fridge is a good thing.
Tissues and extra toilet paper are pluses. Have something that truly reflects
you and your interests. It can be as simple as a photo of you and your fishing
buddies, a model car, or a hobby magazine. If possible, relax.
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